My X girlfriend who is also my 1st love is still in America since last year and we haven't been in contact for a while. i'm worried and uneasy. many of my friends tell me that i should forget her and move on. but i have been faithful to her for 2 years and i never heard anyhing like "she had a new boyfriend or something". i miss her. and i still love her.

she's the perfect kind of girl. she maybe beautiful, rich, and can have anything she possibly want, but she's always kind and caring, a little shy, she's the perfect future wife. we're still very close, i think she still loves me too. my mind is mixed up. @@ @@

Should i forget her and move on?
Or should i stay faithful to her?

she'll be home in 4 months, i hope we can be together again.

This depends. Has she told you that she feels the same way? If not, I would expect the worst and consider moving on.

How long has it been since you spoke to her? When you did speak, did she speak to you as a friend or as a partner?

I can't help but laugh that you mentioned that she is beautiful and rich before anything else.. :P

*HUGS RUBBERDUCK* i havent seen u in awhile! ^__^
anyways... you_and_i(whats ur nickname?)
if u rly love her and ur sure she loves u back
u should wait for her
u guys might be meant for each other *im cheesy i know*

my friend had to move away from his girlfriend who is also my friend
i thought they were gonna end up marrying each other cuz honestly they were great together
when i talked to her on msn she kept talking abt him
she kept asking abt the possibilities that theyll be together again
hes been so far away from her for such a long time but she still believes theyll be back together
she even told me shes refusing a lot of other guys who like her
maybe ur girl is like my friend ne? ^__^

Hehe.. hihi Pinky, long time, no see.

maybe so pinky. i'm kinda confused and worried. i mean, most girls that i'm close to only thinks of me as a big brother. and that's kinda hard for me to get a girlfriend. maybe because most of them knows my past. my horrible past. Nadira, the girl i was talking about, is the only girl who accept me the way i am. she never treats me differently like a weird person or anything, but rather unique. that's why i love her so much. :suki :suki .

we broke up two years ago because she feels like she can only burden me. maybe because i'll do anything for her, and it makes me exhausted but i was always the one who says "i don't mind". i miss her so much and at my birthday 2nd Feb later we're going to chat as long as possible.

i do realize that many guys like her, but i'm her first and only boyfriend till now. that's why i think i have more chance. but my oppositions are good looking rich kids, band players, etc and i'm just a street roughfian with a big motorcycle. the only thing i'm good at is climbing mountains and racing bikes. and she's a smart, beautiful girl who can have everything a girl can possibly have.

i don't know if i had a chance now. but i won't give up!!!!! :good :good :good

yeah!!! ^__^

if you still love her go for it man!!! if the 2 of you are still very close, then go go go!

errr...dude, if u hope that you'll be together than why move on its obvious u still luv her so jus stay wit her dude.!

thanks guys! maybe i just need some encouragement. i hope i could do this. :clap :clap

dont hope, KNOW you can do this. hope helps as well though, lol. you can do it!

if it aint broke, dont fix it.

and yours definitely aint broke and needs no fixing.

i suspose b4 she left for america, u 2 were still together?

then its weird that you 2 haven't contacted each other for a long time, i mean, if its my gal who went somewhere far away, maybe i'll call her every otehr day, or @ the very least, keep in touch thru emails, and msn, and if u cant even do that, the least you can do is to have sent her a parcel/snailmail, during her bdae/valentine day and stuff?

dude, if you love her, then do it like you mean it.
dun just say that you love her and do nothing abt it.
she'll never know, unless you do something for her.

think she probably gonna think you forgotten abt her.

speaking of which,

valentine is coming = your shot at redemption is coming.
drop her a mail or something saying that you miss her and will be waiting for her or something. . .