Title: JAY's state
Description: well...
you_and_i - December 29, 2007 05:17 AM (GMT)
ehm... well i made this thread actually because of just another yui lover's/JAY's statement about leaving this forum. he seems to be in a state of lost. i know how that feels. he said once that he had a bad past/ childhood. i did too, but i try not to be so hard on myself. he said that it's not because of YL, and he also said that he should stop saying things without thinking first and say those words about, well you know, kinda like his last thread about redemption, supernatural, etc.
well i think people who say what's on their minds are great. i mean it takes a lot of courage for that. people who's hard on themselves like him usually has a bad experience in the past. after all, the past is what made us who we are.
he's unique in a way and believe it or not, we all need people who are not ordinary. please help him if possible. we al have bad experience in the past before, don't we? i just don't like seeing someone at JAY's state right now.
pinkylily123 - December 29, 2007 01:22 PM (GMT)
i want to talk to JAY again... T__T
i hope JAY will come back when he feels better
j.k - December 29, 2007 01:50 PM (GMT)
yup yup...i hope he will come back too...at least we have 1 more active members rite?? it's like we have over 3700 of registered members but how many of them are actually active??
the doors in YUI-Lover are always open for you Jay!!
pandas who read this scare me - December 29, 2007 01:50 PM (GMT)
to be honest i think i understand how he feels. He doesn't need sympathy or pity
he needs a kick up the back side. you in films when the bestfriend hits the main character to snap out of it. This is the moment.
He is questioning himself and existance. (sorry for the language) **** it.
why this? why that? Answers that are not there. All we know to be true today may not be true tommorow. hippocrates and the theory of the four humours was thought to be true until the 18th centuary.
So why bother. JAY if you are gonna sulk, sulk. Life crawls on. But how about you do something about it.
This is what i would say. This may seem harsh but thats what i needed ( which i didnt get- i just gave up) I dont want to give up, i want him to find his "truth" his existance.
pinkylily123 - December 30, 2007 09:11 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (pandas who read this scare me @ Dec 29 2007, 01:50 PM) |
to be honest i think i understand how he feels. He doesn't need sympathy or pity
he needs a kick up the back side. you in films when the bestfriend hits the main character to snap out of it. This is the moment.
He is questioning himself and existance. (sorry for the language) **** it.
why this? why that? Answers that are not there. All we know to be true today may not be true tommorow. hippocrates and the theory of the four humours was thought to be true until the 18th centuary.
So why bother. JAY if you are gonna sulk, sulk. Life crawls on. But how about you do something about it.
This is what i would say. This may seem harsh but thats what i needed ( which i didnt get- i just gave up) I dont want to give up, i want him to find his "truth" his existance. |
wow... u just said everything that i didnt have the courage to say...
cherii - December 31, 2007 02:38 AM (GMT)
^^
er...yeah. Me too, with all that.
you_and_i - January 3, 2008 03:57 AM (GMT)
same here. it's hard to say harsh words like that. i did once but she ended up hating me me until now. @@
JustAnotherYUILover - January 5, 2008 11:26 PM (GMT)
cherii - January 6, 2008 02:18 AM (GMT)
Hope you feel better soon! :)
pinkylily123 - January 6, 2008 04:18 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (JustAnotherYUILover @ Jan 5 2008, 11:26 PM) |
| Thanks guys. |
*HUGS*
town_el - January 6, 2008 03:19 PM (GMT)
Phew... I'm glad you're alright...
Welcome back dood !!
you_and_i - January 10, 2008 03:09 AM (GMT)
hey jay, if u read this tell us about yourself. where are you from, what do you like. maybe we can get to know you better. :clap :good
*simply_kawaii* - January 10, 2008 04:05 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (you_and_i @ Jan 10 2008, 03:09 AM) |
| hey jay, if u read this tell us about yourself. where are you from, what do you like. maybe we can get to know you better. :clap :good |
great idea..
welcome back JAY!!! :clap
Riyu October3 - January 11, 2008 12:52 PM (GMT)
Cool! Your back ^___^ Welcome :clap .